{"id":666,"date":"2020-03-10T16:23:17","date_gmt":"2020-03-10T09:23:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/?p=666"},"modified":"2020-07-16T15:37:31","modified_gmt":"2020-07-16T08:37:31","slug":"life-in-months","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/?p=666","title":{"rendered":"Life in Months"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m 27 now. It&#8217;s been 10 years since I was in New Zealand. I was 17, and life seemed endless back then. I was not thinking about time one bit. I was out exploring, discovering, experiencing, learning. I felt like I could live forever.<\/p>\n<p>And all of a sudden, a decade has passed. I&#8217;m nearing 30 now.<\/p>\n<p>Ten years sounds like an inconceivably long time, but it has just flashed right before me, hasn&#8217;t it? Not so long after all!<\/p>\n<p>Some years ago I read an article on waitbutwhy about visualising the time we have as human beings. &#8220;Years&#8221; is a rather abstract concept that we might have trouble wrapping our head around, but putting it in terms of <i>months <\/i>makes it far easier to conceptualise the passage of time.<\/p>\n<p>I still vividly remember that day we first heard about the Coronavirus outbreak. It&#8217;s been 1.5 months since already! That&#8217;s more than a dot according to this chart:<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-671\" src=\"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Months1-1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1400\" height=\"1149\" srcset=\"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Months1-1.png 1400w, https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Months1-1-300x246.png 300w, https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Months1-1-70x56.png 70w, https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/Months1-1-768x630.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Seeing this really put it into perspective how fleeting this all is. Our life is ticking away one dot at a time, and one of those dots is frighteningly short. Seriously &#8212; remember how it was T\u1ebft\u00a0<em>just now<\/em>?<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Dad&#8217;s Dots<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>My dad had me when he was 30, and he is right above that 60th Birthday point. My entire life, from his perspective, can be summed up in the green region:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-670\" src=\"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/mylifeaccordingtomydad-1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"432\" srcset=\"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/mylifeaccordingtomydad-1.png 800w, https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/mylifeaccordingtomydad-1-300x162.png 300w, https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/mylifeaccordingtomydad-1-768x415.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There really is nothing we can do to stop the advance of those dots. My dad keeps pestering me about giving him a grandkid, which I haven&#8217;t given much serious thought to. But seeing how few dots he has left, I kind of understand it a bit more. But no, I&#8217;m not going to have a kid any time soon.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, to quote the original author:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Sometimes life seems really short, and other times it seems impossibly long. But this chart helps to emphasize that it\u2019s most certainly finite. <em><strong>Those are your weeks and they\u2019re all you\u2019ve got.<\/strong><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Some perish a bit sooner along the way, some make it to 100+, but what it all boils down to is a bunch of dots on the calendar of time.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m 27 now. It&#8217;s been 10 years since I was in New Zealand. I was 17, and life seemed endless back then. 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