{"id":418,"date":"2019-09-15T03:07:10","date_gmt":"2019-09-14T20:07:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/?p=418"},"modified":"2020-07-16T15:45:32","modified_gmt":"2020-07-16T08:45:32","slug":"when-owning-things-is-no-longer-the-dream","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/?p=418","title":{"rendered":"When Owning Things Is No Longer The Dream"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When I was younger, there were many things that I feverishly desired, from a big bad sport bike to a massive home theatre system. Most are just materialistic and hedonistic in nature.<\/p>\n<p>Now that I&#8217;m a bit older, everything that I once deemed cool just suddenly loses their appeal. Your priorities and aspirations do shift and change a lot through time.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>A Home Theatre System<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>In 2008 I was a regular member at HD-Vietnam.com. It was one of the first sites that shared high definition movies privately. (At this time, 480p DVDrip files were the norm on file sharing sites).<\/p>\n<p>HD-Vietnam attracted audio and visual enthusiasts who shared pictures and configurations of their luxury home theatre systems. I went <em>nuts<\/em> over those rigs. Of course being a high school kid back then, I could never afford a proper system. I had to make do with my 100k headphones and 17-inch computer screen. I never even had the chance to listen to a basic 5.1 system.<\/p>\n<p>Still, I tried to make the best of the situation. I&#8217;d find lossless audio files and spent days downloading 1080p movies over my crappy ADSL network. I&#8217;d constantly dream of the day where I&#8217;d be rich enough to own a massive TV screen with high quality acoustic systems and comfy cushioned seats.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_420\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-420\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-420\" src=\"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/0274bd3127036a89ae347d4a18e33991-home-theater-rooms-home-theater-systems-736x400.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"348\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-420\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Teenage me was drooling over a room like this<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Fast forward over 10 years, and a couple of days ago we bought a 5.1 surround sound system for our little gym room. It was a basic Logitech and Microlab computer speakers set, nothing fancy. Finally, after 26 years of being alive, I got the chance to experience a 5.1 sound system (apart from going to the cinema).<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, it was&#8230; good, but nothing mind-blowing. Even if I did get to listen to a million-dollar acoustic system with cables made from gold, I&#8217;m certain I still would be pretty flaccid about it. I&#8217;m perfectly happy with my 100k Xiaomi earphones.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>A Cool Sport Bike<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>When I grew a bit older and was able to ride bikes, just like any other young and testosterone-infested boys, I was obsessed with the lighting speeds of sport bikes. The Kawasaki Ninja bikes captured my attention the most. They just look so damn <em>cool<\/em>. The roar of the engine, the masculine curves, the beastly and sleek overall impression, this bike represents the speed, the power, and the &#8220;cool factor&#8221; any young boy dreams of.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_419\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-419\" style=\"width: 600px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-419\" src=\"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/ninja-650-krt_600x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/ninja-650-krt_600x300.jpg 600w, https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/ninja-650-krt_600x300-300x150.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-419\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Look at this beautiful beast.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I would watch countless review and commercial videos of this bike, drooling and fantasising of the day I&#8217;d be able to own it. The obvious problem is that the cheapest model, Ninja 250cc, cost over 130 million dong which I could never afford.<\/p>\n<p>Still, I was dreaming of having a powerful sport bike. My Honda Wave could only get to 90km\/h on a good day. I really, really wanted to feel that wind-slapping thrill of going past 120km\/h.<\/p>\n<p>In summer 2015, I saw an ad for a second hand Yamaha Exciter that had been modified to accommodate an 180cc engine (the regular engine of an Exciter is 135cc). I asked the owner how fast the bike could go, and he said 135km\/h. He was asking for 33 million.<\/p>\n<p>By this point, I already had about 35 million in my savings from all the jobs I had had previously. I went to an ATM and exhausted almost my entire account. I <em>kind of<\/em> knew this was probably a bad financial decision, but still, that bike is just irresistibly cool.<\/p>\n<p>I took a taxi to his place, which was all the way up Nh\u1eadt T\u00e2n bridge. I test rode the bike. It was powerful and the engine was as loud as I had expected.<\/p>\n<p>Somehow I still felt like something wasn&#8217;t right, so I didn&#8217;t give the guy the money right away. I told him I&#8217;d need to fetch the cash from an ATM first, even though I was already carrying 33 million in my pocket.<\/p>\n<p>I then wandered around for a while and sat down at a park bench nearby, contemplating everything. Is this bike worth 95% of all the money I had in the world?<\/p>\n<p>Finally, after probably 30 minutes, I texted the guy sorry, and took a xe \u00f4m home. That was it. Looking back now, I&#8217;m so glad that I turned back after getting\u00a0<em>that\u00a0<\/em>close to a complete financial disaster. I shudder to think what if I had more money than I needed back then, what would I have squandered it all on&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>In 2018 my dad bought a 150cc Honda XL dirt bike. I rode it a couple of times. Meh, nothing exciting. Even if I was to be gifted a 1000cc Ninja HR (the top of the line model) right now, I&#8217;d probably just sell it immediately. It&#8217;s too damn big and bulky, guzzles fuel like a car, and has no functional storage space at all.<\/p>\n<p>As of now, I don&#8217;t give two shits about my transport. I&#8217;m so glad I&#8217;m still driving my trusted 7-year-old Honda Wave to this day.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>The Shift Towards Minimalism<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>The past few years, living a largely frugal and minimalist lifestyle out of necessity, I&#8217;ve gradually shifted my desires away from material possessions. What matters more right now, I guess, is the search for experience, value, and meaning, not the possession of things. The idea of buying something just because I want it no longer exists in my mind; the only reason I think of purchasing something now is out of necessity and function.<\/p>\n<p>In fact I can probably count every single item I&#8217;ve purchased for personal use so far this year (apart from food, petrol, and other essential bills). If I was to pack all of my worldly possessions now, I think I can probably fit all into a suitcase.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s only a smart move really. Materialism is a vicious cycle of desire and dissatisfaction where you already have this thing and you keep yearning for more, for the newer and flashier stuff. I&#8217;m appreciating that quote from Fight Club, &#8220;<em>the things you own end up owning you&#8221;<\/em>, even more. It really is best to just forget about it all, learn to be content with whatever you have, and shift your desires towards a more meaningful and substantial pursuit.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When I was younger, there were many things that I feverishly desired, from a big bad sport bike to a massive home theatre&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":419,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[159],"tags":[112,114,75,113],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/418"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=418"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/418\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1018,"href":"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/418\/revisions\/1018"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/419"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=418"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=418"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/leminhha.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=418"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}